Author: kevershood
Incanabula
Tear out the paper. Crush it into a ball and throw it away. If you miss the basket leave it on the floor. You are starting over. There is no time to waste. Stop the conversation. Interrupt yourself. You’ve rehearsed this scene a thousand times before always ending in ruin. Stop it. Start over.… Continue reading Incanabula
Questions
So, one of the things I’ve learned caring for people is we say things to ourselves we would NEVER say to our worst enemy. We see everything we do, and most of us endure a constant stream of negativity and criticism towards ourselves. Why did I do that? What the hell was I thinking when… Continue reading Questions
Guests Passing Through
Anger. Fear. Shriveling self-doubt. Although I cannot close my door to you, I do not have to give you the food from my table Shame. Regret. Clinging attachment. I will welcome you as guests with painful gifts to offer me, but I do not have to turn down the bed and invite you to… Continue reading Guests Passing Through
When Life Has Nailed You
“Love. Buddha nature. Courage. These are code words for things we don’t know in our minds, but any of us could experience them. These are words that point to what life really is when we let things fall apart and let ourselves be nailed to the present moment.” -Pema Chodron When your back is… Continue reading When Life Has Nailed You
So Many Ways of Being Lost…
I just got back from an amazing adventure with my son and his friend. We attempted to hike the full Timberline trail, an incredible 39 mile loop around the Mt. Hood wilderness, but the snow pack was still too thick around the northeast slope of the mountain to make it safely. In fact there was… Continue reading So Many Ways of Being Lost…
Because It’s Mine
One of my favorite books is Hermania Ibarra’s Working Identities. (Here’s a short video with Ibarra talking about transition.) Ibarra makes the fantastic point that change comes through experimentation. We’d love to imagine that we could sit around in our office or take off on retreat in some beautiful place and just imagine what it… Continue reading Because It’s Mine
Rest Step
The first time I ascended Mt. St. Helens it was May and the mountain was covered in snow. Mt. St. Helens is a great mountain to start with in the Pacific Northwest. Before the eruption St. Helens reached 9,677 feet, and now she is stands at 8,363 feet at the highest place along the rim… Continue reading Rest Step
What Tiresias Knew
We are visual creatures. Much of our brain is devoted to processing visual information. Unfortunately, this creates a kind of bias towards the visible. (Ironically, our penchant for the visible gives us a blindspot for the hidden.) With the COVID-19 devastating our world currently, it strikes me we are beginning to appreciate the power of… Continue reading What Tiresias Knew
Good Dog…
Kobe Bryant, his daughter, and his friends died yesterday. I’m struck with how someone at the height of their promise and possibility with every advantage can suddenly be taken like that. It takes one moment, one phone, one word for life to change suddenly and there’s no going back. If I’m honest part of my… Continue reading Good Dog…